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Question: Can men and women truly be friendsHow Many 2nd Chances Can You Get? When Is It Enough?
Deck – You only get one second chance …
Dru – could go for 3, 4 or 5 chances … there is no limit … depending on the situation..
Gsef – Yeah i could give someone a second chance. Depending on the situation …
Tune in for Sandy C’s comment …
Damn, I did say3,4,5 chances. Sounding like a sucka..LOL
King Flaco would give a worthy young lady more than one shot with royalty if she rocked his world. She has to earn a credit so to speak. If there was no drama that would help her also. But truth be told it all starts with if his royal penis was thoroughly pleased.
I appreciate the honesty Flaco, spoken like a true gentlemen!
Man, I must be a member and the founder of being a sucker. I have given every woman I been with multiple chances. We all like to say oh hell no, no second chance but when that jones come down….its a wrap! Love is a MF’er…lol
You right Mel,cause when its your first love, you think it can always work it out.
@Dee I dont count how many second chances I get either cause usually there is only one. Then third and the fourth…see the trend! lol
@Dru, yeah we got a cousin going thru that as we speak…..but I aint one to gossip so you ant heard that from me
Lol killa. These dudes nowadays get caught up quick in some chicks. Then keep goin back because it’s a safe and familiar situation. I say burn a bridge now and then. It’s an adventure.
P.S. That’s not about anyone in particular.
I think the amount of chances someone gets should depend on the situation and the person. Some things are forgiveable and others aren’t. That being said everyone must have their own list of non-negotiables. The things there are no 2nd chances for. The key is sticking to that list regardless of how good the sex is, or isn’t.
I hate dealing with weak personality in a relationship and for me second chances should never come easy. I live the life of an alpha person in all aspects. But I am fair so prove to me you deserve a second change and you get it. Once the second chance is given the issue is forgotten. But do more then just cry and beg because at the end of the day you have not told me why your behaviour is going to change. Make me truly understand that with this second chance their will be a change. But its going to be hard since I live by the rule “you can never changes the nature of a person”. Once a lire most likely always a lire.
C-buggie
I think it all depends on the situation. You sleep with my friend and we are done…. no second chances…. matter a fact I dont even want to hear it. But if you go out with your boys and tell me you are chillin at home, I can give you another chance. BIG DIFF! Just dont be a liar cause at some point even the small stuff is going to turn into an issue. Personality issues are a whole different story, if we just have conflict then there are really no second chances, just cutting my losses at that point. If you dont get me a birthday card on my bday, no second chances… that is a fundamental difference… LOL
Only sometimes will i give a person a second chance. These days maybe two or three chances is MORE than enough. Each situation has its own consequences, every mistake does not have to result in a break-up or fall out. HANDLE EACH SITUATION WITH CARE…
KJV Luke 17: 3-4 “Take heed to yourselves: If thy brother trespass against thee, rebuke him; and if he repent, forgive him.
And If he trespass against thee seven times in a day, and seven times in a day turn again to thee, saying, I repent; thou shalt forgive him.”
Speaking as someone who is notorius for screwing up in relationships I can appreciate a genuine second chance but it totally doesn’t count if the offense is constantly being brought up. If you want to give me a second chance and keep me around because you’re comfortable with me or because you secretly want to hold something over my head then please just keep your second chance to yourself but if you have genuine feelings for me and you’re interested in developing the relationship furhter then thanks and I will attempt to work on my screw ups.
I know I am capable of taking a lot from a person and can give unlimited chances as long as I love that person and still have a glimmer of hope in him or the relationship.
When i was younger i had no patience,1 F’up and party done lol… but now, after being in love and understanding what thats like. I’d give a second chance because no one is perfect. Sometime ppl need to separate and work on themselves… then maybe give another chance.
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